Lambent

You come home from school, work or any other tiring place. You wish to be left alone and just lay in your room and get that 6 hour nap but you hear shouting noises. It is your mother calling you, she seems to be in an irritated mood and lets out all her frustration on you. You both have an argument and go your own ways, sadly enough that is the definition of parenting nowadays. Now, even though this sequence doesn't always repeat itself but you feel mentally torn every single time you have to argue with your mother over who placed the dish in the kitchen or your father on why you couldn't get an A grade this year. If they are not calm then you should stay calm To be keep your arguments at a minimum with your parents, it is better to calm yourself down and quietly listen to their point of view. If the argument starts getting hot headed and you end up screaming as well, then that furthers the fight with your parents meaning that results in nothing but frowned faces and unbe...

Some of us prefer socializing, some of us think of it as a bother while some of us cannot participate because of our inmost feeling holding us back. You meet a lot of people in your life, all of whom would bear different and distinct personalities. Hanging out with people that differ from you can give you all sorts of insights and change your point of views that you hold towards this world, you might discover something completely unknown to you and it would open all sorts of doors but you also might get to hear some pessimistic or 'yuck' opinions, that mostly anyone would not agree with. Anyways, everyone, well when I say everyone I might be generalizing but mostly everyone seems to have a 'shy' person within their group of friends or just close acquaintances. You try to talk with them but as they do not respond in the way you would expect them to and also seem to shut themselves eventually drifting away from the group so you give up trying to associate with them. ...

All of us need something to depend on. No matter how tough and strong willed one would demonstrate themselves in front of audiences, they are always supported and backed up by millions of coincidences and incidents that put them at that pedestal. Nothing we do can be done alone nor is it done alone, even if we think it might have been. If you're a person that enjoys their own company, still there would have been times in your life where you might have felt that what if a special someone was here with me? Living in the shadows and cutting away human interaction can be deadly and not as fun and relatable as these memes hope to turn it out into. We can lose our sense of self as we diminish our interactions with society, we start getting confused on how others think and that further contributes to us just looking the other way more. You also start developing symptoms of stress and anxiety Compromise Now, this clarification or more like elaboration is for individuals that cannot...

We all have various methods to release stress, we find such methods to keep us sane as the frustration that stress can end up building in a person's heart is no joke. You come home, your boss yelled at you for being slow, your best friend sprained her ankle during gym, your mother will be late once again from work, all of the tense situations in your life start piling up and you feel like drowning yourself into these waves of negativity. Now, I believe all of you might have heard of how reading or more so writing can be a fruitful method of distraction. They are usually the stereotypical ways of releasing stress and recommending by many as well but what about 'poetry'?. Has it ever crossed your mind? Indulging into the unappreciative world of poems can be quite thrilling, mostly as this experience can never go wrong. It can remind you of the countless mystery's this world carries while also rubbing your back and assuring you everything will be 'alright'. ...

You might have an assignment due tomorrow, a meeting scheduled, homework to complete or any other significant work in progress, but you just don't feel like completing it. You spend most of your time in activities that won't benefit you in the long run and try to avoid focusing on your responsibilities, pretty much conforming to the meaning of procrastination. I'd like to agree. It can be particularly difficult to open your notebook or paperwork and just start tapping at the keyboard right away, most of the time, leisure overcomes your desire to continue working and you just give in to it. Stopping procrastination can be a nightmare itself. Happens to me all the time but I usually withhold myself and come to a realization that ' this is going to crush me'. So,when will you get your work done? at the end time, like always? If you ever catch yourself, falling into the arms of laziness then ask the above question. These activities that are so tempting can be do...

Most of your life, you meet all kinds of people. Individuals that accept and encourage you, and show toxic people signs. Individuals that destroy, devalue you and show  We don't realize negative people in our life and think of it as rather cruel or unsettling to just kick someone out of our life, we believe they are human and make mistakes which can be forgiven. But what if those mistakes continue non-stop?  Understanding that life is not a bed of roses and just because someone has declared to be your 'friend', doesn't mean for you to excuse them. Toxic people can cut you up from the inside, they throw your self confidence to the ground and drag it to the point you feel hollow, you shut yourself down and feel uncomfortable during gatherings, you stop trusting people and just distance yourself. If you are stuck with a toxic friend or person in general and cannot find a way out, then you need to be brave. Yes, braver than you are now. This might seem a simple enough s...

What if I cross the street on a red light? What if i throw myself from the stairs? What would it feel like to have a cactus in your nose? What would happen if I stab my mother?, you might be thinking you've finally went insane as you're having thoughts that are not considered as 'normal'. Most of the time, you'd sit back and think about every intrusive thought you've had and why you had it. Don't think about the reason, just move on One of the reasons why most people with such thoughts fall into depression is that they try to search for the reason as to why they keep having such thoughts and think of themselves as 'abnormal', when in reality, everybody experiences weird enough scenarios in their mind but they don't meet the same fate as you, why? They don't dwell on it. Drill it into your brain that you cannot control your thoughts, if someone tells you to not think of an elephant you'd automatically end up thinking of an elephant...