You come home from school, work or any other tiring place. You wish to be left alone and just lay in your room and get that 6 hour nap but you hear shouting noises. It is your mother calling you, she seems to be in an irritated mood and lets out all her frustration on you. You both have an argument and go your own ways, sadly enough that is the definition of parenting nowadays.
Now, even though this sequence doesn't always repeat itself but you feel mentally torn every single time you have to argue with your mother over who placed the dish in the kitchen or your father on why you couldn't get an A grade this year.
If they are not calm then you should stay calm
To be keep your arguments at a minimum with your parents, it is better to calm yourself down and quietly listen to their point of view. If the argument starts getting hot headed and you end up screaming as well, then that furthers the fight with your parents meaning that results in nothing but frowned faces and unbearable mornings.
Remain quiet even if you know you are not in the wrong
All of us know, that during family arguments, lots of times we can be correct and get yelled on for no reason. The mistake that we make that leads to non-stop quarrels is that we fight back.
The most sane and reasonable answer during such situations is to just stand and listen, when you have nothing to say and seem uninterested then there is a highly likely chance the whole thing won't blow up as easily.
For example, you came home late. Your dad knew that you had a meet-up with your college friends and you were bound to come late but due to him forgetting and giving into the intensity of the situation ends up yelling at you, forcing you to explain yourself.
At that time, the possibly safe option is to sit there and hear out what he has to say. If you want to say anything then it should be in his favor, and when the whole thing calms down, explain yourself properly in your defense. Be sure to not contradict yourself though or he'd think you were lying.
If you know you'll get into a fight beforehand then buy or get them something they like
This might seem like an easy way out but trust me, it works wonders. Now, if you know that you have screwed up and your mother will definitely not show any mercy then buy her something! Your parents don't need to be the picture perfect definition of parents that are strict to the point of no forgiving. Buying gifts always recovers bonds.
Before coming home, grab something your parents are really fond of and when you arrive home and they are ready to pounce on you, just give them the present that you bought. Compliment them and try to elaborate how lucky you are to have them in your life.
This can help the situation to loosen up and aid in them forgetting about what they were mad about. Chances are they'll ask you about it after they recover from their present but they won't ask in a harsh way as they were supposed to before.
Keep in mind, these tactics have worked for me, sometimes well rarely the situation doesn't favor these tips but these are the basics and essential to consider if you'd want to perfectly avoid any kind of quarrel with your family.
Now, even though this sequence doesn't always repeat itself but you feel mentally torn every single time you have to argue with your mother over who placed the dish in the kitchen or your father on why you couldn't get an A grade this year.
If they are not calm then you should stay calm
To be keep your arguments at a minimum with your parents, it is better to calm yourself down and quietly listen to their point of view. If the argument starts getting hot headed and you end up screaming as well, then that furthers the fight with your parents meaning that results in nothing but frowned faces and unbearable mornings.
Remain quiet even if you know you are not in the wrong
The most sane and reasonable answer during such situations is to just stand and listen, when you have nothing to say and seem uninterested then there is a highly likely chance the whole thing won't blow up as easily.
For example, you came home late. Your dad knew that you had a meet-up with your college friends and you were bound to come late but due to him forgetting and giving into the intensity of the situation ends up yelling at you, forcing you to explain yourself.
At that time, the possibly safe option is to sit there and hear out what he has to say. If you want to say anything then it should be in his favor, and when the whole thing calms down, explain yourself properly in your defense. Be sure to not contradict yourself though or he'd think you were lying.
If you know you'll get into a fight beforehand then buy or get them something they like
This might seem like an easy way out but trust me, it works wonders. Now, if you know that you have screwed up and your mother will definitely not show any mercy then buy her something! Your parents don't need to be the picture perfect definition of parents that are strict to the point of no forgiving. Buying gifts always recovers bonds.
Before coming home, grab something your parents are really fond of and when you arrive home and they are ready to pounce on you, just give them the present that you bought. Compliment them and try to elaborate how lucky you are to have them in your life.
This can help the situation to loosen up and aid in them forgetting about what they were mad about. Chances are they'll ask you about it after they recover from their present but they won't ask in a harsh way as they were supposed to before.
Keep in mind, these tactics have worked for me, sometimes well rarely the situation doesn't favor these tips but these are the basics and essential to consider if you'd want to perfectly avoid any kind of quarrel with your family.
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